It started in 2001. Hack Doctor urged us to get ourselves checked out fertility-wise. We were told all was fine and ours was a mysterious infertility. Leery of the drugs and uncertainty of IVF, we kicked off the adoption process immediately. We brought our beautiful, perfect Laney home in 2005. By 2007, our family felt settled and we were ready to revisit the fertility issue. I returned to Hack Doctor. She told me that if I wanted to get pregnant, we'd have to pursue an aggressive IVF-y route. I wonder how big this thing in me was by August, 2007…